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Sunday, August 5, 2018

Is your partner giving you problems, end it here

Is your partner giving you problems, end it here


1. Be comfortable alone . You don't have to try to act cool or be a try hard; just be loose. Don't set out looking for a girlfriend, or you'll just end up looking desperate. Self confidence and self sufficiency are extremely sexy qualities in a person, and you will not seem like you have either of these if you're begging every girl you meet to go out with you.
Look to make good friends rather than a girlfriend. This means you should talk to as many women as possible, not just girls you're immediately attracted to. Making good friends with women will help you practice holding conversations with them, as well as learning how women feel and think in general. More importantly, you'll be helping yourself feel less lonely without desperately seeking a girlfriend.

2. Help someone. It could be her, or it could be someone else in the room. Is she carrying something heavy? Say "let me help you with that" and carry it for her. Is someone short on cash? Lend them a few dollars so they can eat lunch. Hold the door open for the next person coming through, even if they haven't reached it yet. In other words, be a kind and generous person. Not only will it get her attention, but it will also make you feel good about yourself. Don't be fake and do nice things only when she's around, though. Chances are, she'll notice that there's a difference between how you treat her, and how you treat others. Help people all the time, in a wide variety of ways. She'll notice, and so will the people she knows, and on the occasion that you come up in a conversation, people will say "They're such a great person!" and this girl will start thinking "Yeah...they are, aren't they?"

3.Approach tons of girls on a consistent basis. If you see a girl whom you find attractive, go and talk to her (doesn't matter what time it is). And you do that on a regular basis. If you go out one day and sit it out for next few days, it won't work well. Go out regularly and talk to bunch of women. Supermarkets, library, malls, streets, social gatherings any place where you think you might find girls.


4. Avoid being afraid to fail. Remember, fear of rejection is extremely irrational. If you see a hot girl, go and talk to her. Convey her your intentions right away. Don't digress, no matter what, "Hi, you are cute and I came here to know who you really are." You are looking for a girlfriend, not a friend who is a 'girl'.

5. Avoid giving yourself time to make excuses. When you see a hot girl, don't make excuses like 'she's probably in a relationship', 'she is on her phone', 'she is jogging', or 'man, I look so bad'. Believe it that there is no valid excuse to not talk to her. At worst she would say 'no' and walk away. You have to try again and again to get good at this.

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